The Promises of ACOA . We will discover our real identities by loving and accepting ourselves. . Our self-esteem will increase as we give ourselves approval on a daily basis. . Fear of authority figures and the need to "people-please" will leave us. . Our ability to share intimacy will grow inside us. . As we face our abandonment issues, we will be attracted by strengths and become more tolerant of weaknesses. . We will enjoy feeling stable, peaceful, and financially secure. . We will learn how to play and have fun in our lives. . We will chose to love people who can love and be responsible for themselves. . Healthy boundaries and limits will become easier for us to set. . Fears of failures and success will leave us, as we intuitively make healthier choices. . With help from our ACA support group, we will slowly release our dysfunctional behaviors. . Gradually, with our Higher Power's help, we learn to expect the best and get it. . ***************************** . Thank you for being with us tonight! Our group web page is at http://www.12stepforums.net/acoa.html . Our Group Message board is at http://www.activeboard.com/forum.spark?forumID=42759 Your participation and support on this board is appreciated and valued. . Should you wish to purchase a book related to ACoA, we have several available at the Miracles In Progress Recovery Book Store at http://www.12stepforums.net/books.html . Again, thank you for being here and we hope to see you at our next meeting! . ****Chat room is now open for general and supportive chat****